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Photograph
by S
King | On
Pambula
Beach |
"Your wedding
day".
Since you are making a full, lifetime commitment to each other, your wedding day is a significant occasion.
Therefore, all the arrangements you make need to contribute to the success of the day's celebrations.
The venue, reception location, flowers, transport, photographer and, of course, your celebrant are
all very important elements of your arrangements.
Careful consideration should be given to each of these matters.
When you have selected your wedding date, time and location you need to contact me (the Celebrant) to confirm that I am available to conduct your ceremony.
If you leave this too late then some changes to date, time and place may be necessary to some degree.
As your Celebrant I will attend to all the legal paperwork and advise and assist you in the selection of your ceremony and, most important, will attend and solemnise your marriage.
The ceremony that you select should firstly meet all legal requirements and should also reflect your affection and feelings on the day.
It should be something very special to you both. As a Civil Celebrant I am able to offer quite flexible options for your ceremony which can be a very moving and special event for you.
The ceremony can include readings and poems if you wish and these can be read by family members or friends
The vows do not need to be memorised as you will usually repeat them in meaningful and manageable phrases after me. Similarly with the fitting of the ring or rings.
The giving away of the Bride, although an old tradition, is optional. If it is included it would involve either or both parents or other member of your family or a friend.
I like to recommend that music be included in the ceremony for when the Bride enters and walks to where the Groom is waiting for her, when the register is being signed and immediately after the closing of the ceremony. Music while the ceremony is being conducted is not recommended.
Nowadays it is not customary for the Bride to be late for her wedding. However, sometimes events occur that cannot be avoided and may cause a late arrival. Punctual arrival at your wedding should be seriously aimed for out of courtesy and consideration for your guests.
The signing of the register is done on a small table conveniently located near where the Bridal Party
stand for the ceremony. The placing of two chairs behind the table allows for more convenient signing of the register by the Bride, Groom and the witnesses.
During the signing of the register the Bride's bouquet is usually placed on the table.
If you wish to have flowers in a vase or bowl on the table DO NOT have water in the vase or bowl.
Two witnesses are required to also sign the papers. They must be at least 18 years of age and can be anyone that the Bride and Groom may wish to select. The witnesses must have been present throughout the ceremony.
What
you need
to know to
start the
process of
becoming
Husband
and Wife
Firstly,
having
selected
your
intended
Partner,
you will
need to
contact a
Civil
Marriage
Celebrant
of your
choice to
arrange a
mutually
suitable
date, time
and place
for your
ceremony.
You
will need
to
complete a
Notice
of
Intended
Marriage
form which
you can
obtain
from the
Celebrant
or it can
be
downloaded
from the
Attorney-General's
web site
at www.ag.gov.au/celebrants
and follow
the link
to Notice
of
Intended
Marriage.
This
form, when
completed,
must be
lodged
with the
Celebrant no
earlier
than
eighteen
months or
later than
one month
and one
day prior
to the
date of
your
intended
marriage
together
with
certain
documents
of proof
of
indentity.
Your
Celebrant
will
explain
what is
required
in this
regard.